Do twin flames know they are twin flames? Everything you need to know

It’s common to hear people talk about twin flames these days.

Many people think they have one, and if they haven’t met them yet, they are still looking for them.

But do twin flames know they are twin flames? How do you know if you have one?

If you are wondering about twin flames and how the whole thing works, I will clear things up for you today:

Do twin flames know they are twin flames?

Sometimes, twin flames do know they are twin flames. And sometimes they don’t.

It’s not a rule, per se to be aware of the concept of twin flames when you meet yours.

But it is a very strong connection that can’t be explained. You see, meeting your twin flame will feel different than anyone else you’ve met before.

It’s that feeling of being “home.”

It’s that feeling of finally being with your other half, the person you were meant to be with.

Simply put, it’s a feeling that overrides all other connections you’ve had in your life.

If your twin flame knows he or she is your twin flame, then they might be more conscious about signs of the connection.

You may find yourself drawn to certain things and seeking certain people out more.

But there is nothing wrong with not knowing that the person you love is your twin flame.

You see, the connection itself doesn’t change in the slightest whether that person knows the name of the concept or not.

I will go into this in more detail in a bit, but first, let’s figure out how you know that you have a twin flame in the first place!

How do you know if you have a twin flame?

The best way to find out if you and your partner are twin flames is to ask yourself these questions:

• Do you feel inexplicably drawn to them?
• Do you feel like you have known them your entire life?
• Do you feel that there is no need to “break the ice” and get to know them?
• Do you feel like you can talk to them about anything and everything?
• Do you feel as if you have known them before in a past life?
• Do you feel like you have an unbreakable bond with them?
• Do you feel like you have a deep understanding and connection with them?

If you answered “yes” to these questions, you may be twin flames.

You can check out our YouTube video below for more signs they might be your twin flame:

However, it’s important to understand that just because you have a deep connection like that with someone, doesn’t mean you need to call it your twin flame right away or even be aware of this concept.

That brings me to my next point:

Is it possible to be with your twin flame without realizing it?

Yes. Because your twin flame is just a person you are deeply connected to you, you may not know he or she is your twin flame.

You may not even know what a twin flame is.

As you learn about the concept of twin flames, you may discover that you and your partner are twin flames.

It is important to note that you do not have to know what twin flames are to be one.

Your twin flame is always there, waiting for you to recognize him or her.

Your twin flame is always there, waiting for you to open up to the possibility of being with them, but that doesn’t mean you need to realize you are twin flames.

The relationship stays the same, whether you give it the label of twin flames or not!

That will probably explain this next point as well:

Does the other person need to know he or she is your twin flame?

Your twin flame does not have to know he or she is your twin flame.

If you feel that you need to tell your partner that you are his or her twin flame, do so if you feel the need to.

If you don’t tell them, that’s okay too.

You don’t have to force this information on them. But if you feel like you have to tell them, do so.

Your partner may also have a strong feeling that you are his or her twin flame just from the deep connection you have.

Allow this connection to flourish and grow. Let your feelings guide you. If you know you are with your twin flame, then allow the connection to happen between you and your partner.

Do not force it. Do not try to speed up the process. Let it happen naturally.

This brings me to the most important point:

Do you need to believe in the twin flame concept?

You don’t have to believe in the twin flame concept to be a twin flame or have a twin flame connection.

The concept is just a way to describe this strong connection some people feel with each other.

Do not feel pressured to believe in the twin flame concept if you don’t want to.

You can choose not to believe in it if you want. You can reject it if you want.

The thing is, you can choose your own way of thinking about this connection if you want.

As I have said before, these concepts are just that: concepts.

Nothing more, nothing less. You don’t have to subscribe to any of them if you don’t want to.

You can choose your own way of thinking about and experiencing love.

The problem is that a lot of the time, people get really caught up in spiritual concepts that they then get unhealthily attached to.

Think about it: if you are convinced that someone is your twin flame when in reality, they actually aren’t and they aren’t a healthy partner for you, you might spend your life feeling empty, lonely, and unfulfilled if you don’t have a healthy relationship with them.

That is why it is so important to be careful about what you believe in and how you believe in it.

This reminds me of a video I watched that completely blew my mind.

In this eye-opening video, the shaman Rudà Iandê talks about how there are so many toxic spirituality traps that people fall into.

With having only the best of intentions, you could put obstacles in your own way by clinging to limiting concepts.

The good news?

You can find ways to empower yourself and raise above these concepts by simply allowing connections to happen without attaching any immediate meaning to them.

If you want help with that, click here to watch the free video.

Simply put, you need to allow yourself to let go of limiting concepts:

You can let go of limiting concepts

The thing is, we often attach so much meaning to concepts like twin flames because, at our core, we want nothing more than to find someone to love us as we deserve.

We want to find someone who will love us unconditionally, who will treat us well and who will support us in any way possible.

We want to find someone who we can connect with deeply and on a soulful level.

It is this desire that makes it so hard for us to see past the spiritual concepts that are being used to explain our relationships and the love we feel for each other in order to see what is really going on between us.

It makes it hard for us to see each other clearly because we get caught up in the idea of twin flames or soulmates or whatever else.

Do you believe in the twin flame concept? Do you think it’s a good thing?

Now: I’m not saying it’s not a good thing, don’t get me wrong!

The problem is that when you get so attached to these concepts, you often fail to see your relationship for the reality that it is, which sometimes is a beautiful connection, but other times it could be unhealthy!

The concept of twin flames is not inherently wrong, but it is based on the idea that your twin flame is your other half, which means that without them, you are not whole and complete.

Do you see how that can be a bit problematic?

The thing is, when you believe that without your partner you aren’t whole, then it is very easy to slip into unhealthy attachments, like codependency, because you begin to feel like it is your partner’s job to make you whole.

You might even start to believe that they are responsible for your happiness and if they don’t make you happy, then it’s their fault.

That is a very dangerous mindset when it comes to relationships because it sets the stage for all kinds of unhealthy behavior, like blaming your partner for all of your problems instead of taking responsibility for them yourself.

Most importantly, it can make you terrified of ever breaking up with your partner because you believe that they are your one true love and you will never find someone else who makes you happy.

In the end, twin flames aren’t a bad thing and if you feel like you have found yours, by all means, embrace that!

However, remember that you are always complete and whole on your own and you don’t need anyone else for that!

When you approach concepts like this with the idea in mind that it is a beautiful explanation for your deep connection, but still don’t give it too much significance, you’ll be stellar!

If you are interested in this approach and want to know more, this video covers this topic really well and gives you a super healthy approach to the concept of twin flames:

Final thoughts

Twin flames don’t always know that they are twin flames – sometimes, they might not even be aware of the concept at all.

If you want to tell your partner about this concept, by all means, go for it!

But pay attention to how you relate to it and if you assign a lot of meaning to something that might just be an amazing relationship with healthy communication!

Don’t put another person on a pedestal and believe that you could never be happy without them because that is a recipe for disaster!

Simply put, enjoy your time with your twin flame but remember that you are powerful on your own, too!