What is twin flame confusion? 14 ways to get clarity

Do you have doubts about your twin flame? Sad as it may seem, but it’s a common phenomenon called twin flame confusion.

If you want to learn more about this – particularly how to get out of this rut – you’re in the right place. In fact, I’ll walk you through the whole process below.

What is twin flame confusion, anyway?

It’s when you become unsure whether or not you’re with your true twin flame.

It goes without saying that uncertainty can be bad for a relationship. As researcher Gurit Birnbaum puts it:

Uncertainty “may be particularly threatening and devastating for personal and relationship well-being in established relationships, in which it is least expected.”

While this confusion can be devastating for twin flames, this is a normal part of the dynamic. Twin flame relationships can be so tumultuous that ‘negative’ events such as confusion and separation often take place.

What causes twin flame confusion?

There are two reasons why this happens:

Sparse understanding of twin flame dynamics

As the adage goes: “Knowledge is power.”

Simply put, if you don’t know anything about twin flame relationships, you can’t help but feel unsure about all that’s happening.

Tip: if you want to learn more about twin flames and avoid this confusing phase, I suggest reading all the articles we have on this site.

The overwhelming feeling that comes with the twin flame journey

When you meet your twin flame, you’ll end up looking at somebody who’s just like you. That’s why they’re called your mirror soul in the first place.

This makes the twin flame journey mighty overwhelming. In fact, it may end up disturbing your emotional, spiritual, and mental state.

More often than not, this is the main reason why some twin flames get confused with their relationships. At first, it’s as if everything is right in the world. Then, without warning, the feeling of uncertainty starts creeping in.

To gain twin flame clarity, you need to ask yourself these 14 questions

While the feeling of uncertainty may go as quickly as it appeared, it may stick with you for quite some time.

The good news is that the latter doesn’t need to happen. If ever you feel twin flame confusion right now, the best thing to do is to reflect and ask yourself these 14 questions:

1) Did you recognize them right away?

Whenever you find yourself doubting your twin flame, go back to the time you’ve met them.

Did you recognize them right away? Did you feel as if you’ve known them for a long time?

If your answer to both questions is yes, it’s pretty clear. They’re your twin flame, without a shadow of a doubt.

See, you’ve been with each other many lifetimes before. So even if you’ve met them for the first time, they’ll feel familiar to you.

If you ask me, this is strong proof that you’re with the right person.

2) Are you drawn to them?

Are you a moth to their flame? Then this fact should clear up your confusion. Yes, they’re 100% your twin flame.

See, their energy is with you – and yours, theirs. So whenever they’re near you, you can’t help but get drawn to them.

And, even if they’re far away, you’ll feel like there’s an invisible magnet drawing you two together. Before you know it, you may find yourself jumping on the next flight just to be with them!

3) Do you have an unexplainable connection with them?

Apart from being physically drawn to your twin flame, do you feel an unexplainable connection with them as well?

Well, it’s a sign that you’re predestined to be with each other. And yes, this is a fact you shouldn’t doubt.

Listen: you can go ahead and forge connections with other partners. But, as you’ll see, you won’t feel this unique, divine connection with anybody other than your twin flame.

4) Have you spoken to a gifted advisor?

The points I’ve covered in this article will give you a good idea of twin flame confusion and the like.

But even with my research-backed advice, I understand how unique every situation is.

That’s why I recommend getting a personalized reading to really address the issues you’re facing.

The key, however, is finding someone you can trust.

After a challenging time in my love life, I found it liberating to speak to an advisor from Psychic Source. Needless to say, they gave me the motivation to organize my life.

The advisor I spoke to was kind and understanding of my situation. True enough, they were accommodating.

My love reading shed light on my situation in a way I couldn’t see on my own. The result? I was finally able to clear my head and mend my broken heart.

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Not only can a gifted advisor tell you more twin flame confusion, but they can reveal all your future love possibilities as well.

5) Are you very similar to each other?

Do you like the same things? Are your interests and life experiences cut out from the same cloth?

Again, if you’ve answered yes to both questions, then it’s a sign that you’re with your twin flame, and you shouldn’t doubt them.

Birds of the same feather flock together!

See, your twin flame is the other half of your soul. You’ve been with each other for ages, and your souls have synched up to show these similarities. So the things you like, need, or experience are often very similar to them.

6) Do you complement each other?

If you’re not that similar to your twin flame, that doesn’t mean that you should doubt them right away. Before you get more ‘confused,’ ask yourself: do they complement you?

Are they the yin to your yang? The Bonnie to your Clyde (or vice-versa)?

See, your twin flame isn’t always similar to you. Opposite poles attract, as they always say.

For what it’s worth, they can mirror you the other way around, e.g., filling out for the traits or characteristics you lack.

As psychologist John Mayer, Ph.D. explains it:

“You’re attracted to your opposite because they have some qualities that you feel you kinda suck at. The actual attraction is over a quality you would like to develop or build up in yourself.”

This complementing quality makes your twin flame a great partner to begin with.

7) Is the relationship very intense?

If sparks keep flying time and time again, then doubt should be the last thing on your mind. After all, this intensity is a hallmark characteristic of a twin flame relationship.

Should you wish to learn more about this passion, I recommend getting a personalized reading at Psychic Source.

I mentioned them earlier.

They’ve been a great source of comfort and guidance when I’ve faced issues in my love life.  Their specialist advisers are well-versed when it comes to twin flame problems.

So, what are you waiting for?

From giving you clarity on the situation to supporting your life-changing decisions, these advisors will empower you to make confident decisions about your twin flame relationship.

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8) Is your relationship tumultuous?

Are you constantly bickering or fighting each other? This doesn’t necessarily mean you should doubt your entire twin flame journey.

As I’ve mentioned, this kind of relationship is often problematic. After all, you’re with a person who’s pretty much like yourself. So apart from having your good qualities, they may end up magnifying the bad ones too.

Imagine being with a person who’s just as stubborn as you.

My advice? Don’t doubt or give up on them yet. More often than not, this rough patch is here to help you grow into better twin flames.

9) Do you feel more insecure whenever you’re with them?

When you’re with your twin flame, do your insecurities rise to the surface? See, I know this feeling can make you highly doubtful.

If you ask me, it shouldn’t be.

As spiritual author Shannon Kaiser explains it:

“Often, this type of relationship will reflect your problems and deepest insecurities so you can work through them to heal and grow.”

See, this insecure feeling is not necessarily bad. In fact, it could give you the clarity that your relationship needs.

10) Do they help you become a better person?

As I’ve just explained, your twin flame can help you grow better as a person.

Sure enough, achieving personal development is confirmation that you’re with the right one.

They’ll challenge you alright, but that’s because they only want you to evolve into a better person.

They want you to become a 2.0 version of yourself if you will.

So if you’re still doubting your twin flame even after this beautiful occurrence, I suggest you do a double-take right now. You’re with the right person already, and confusion should be the last thing on your mind.

11) Do you keep returning to them (and them, to you)?

Let me circle back to the ‘moth and flame’ metaphor I’ve mentioned earlier.

If you often fly back to them – even though you always get your wings burned – then what you have is a legit twin flame relationship.

The great thing is it doesn’t matter how long you’ve been apart. It could be years, decades even.

You don’t even need to try to look for them. For some unexplained reason, you always find each other.

If you ask me, this sign shows that there’s no need for you to be doubtful or confused. Destiny is conspiring to bring you two together, for what you have is 100% real.

12) Do you often dream about them?

Dreaming about other people is quite normal. But if your twin flame makes an appearance in your mind every night, then it’s a clear sign that they’re the one.

See, “Dreams typically involve elements from waking life, such as known people or familiar locations.”  (Keyword: known people.)

Think about it: you’ve been overthinking about them that they end up manifesting in your dreams.

That said, dreaming about your twin flame isn’t always pleasant. In fact, you could dream about them cheating on you. Newsflash: more often than not, these dreams – or should I say nightmares – are true.

13) Do you share a psychic connection?

You and your twin flame are connected in such a way that your energies and emotions are both in sync. As a result, you may be able to communicate with each other telepathically.

Believe it or not, you already know what they want to say even before they open their mouth. It’s as if they’re right inside you!

This is an undeniable characteristic that only twin flames have, so don’t be surprised if your mirror soul comes up to you and asks you if you have any doubts. They can kinda read your mind, after all.

14) Do you get sick at the same time?

Say you’re physically separated from your twin flame at the moment. They got sick, and before you know it, you’re nursing an illness too.

Behold the magic of your twin flame connection!

Even if you’re apart from each other, somehow, your souls get sick simultaneously.

There could be no more evident sign than this if you were to ask me. You’re so entwined with each other that you end up catching the other’s illness – even if they’re miles away from you!

Final thoughts

Hopefully, I’ve given you a good idea of the phenomenon known as twin flame confusion. But if you want to learn more about this situation, then you should speak to a gifted advisor ASAP.

I mentioned Psychic Source earlier. Based on my own experience with them, I know they’re the real McCoy. Their advisors are not only kind – they’re accommodating as well.

So, if you really want to get to the bottom of why you experience twin flame confusion, get in touch with an advisor today. I’m happy I did, for it changed my life for the better.

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